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A Strap On Buying Guide

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When it comes to bedroom antics, it can be kind of hard to keep things feeling new and exciting. Maybe you’ve tried watching porn together, role playing or even incorporating BDSM, but you’re still not sated. Moving beyond the traditional ways of spicing up your bedroom can easily fix your issue. Instead of going for the norm this weekend,go for a strap on.

Sure, strap ons can be a little intimidating, but everyone and every kind of couple can actually find a lot of enjoyment and pleasure in using one. Let’s explore the who’s, the how’s and the what’s of all things strap-on.

When you’re talking about strap-ons, you’re actually talking about the harness that you wear. Harnesses come in four different options for you to choose from.

There is the two strap harness, which tends to be the most popular option. This harness allows the wearer to simply step into the straps and pull them up around the waist. It keeps your back side open and free for easy access.

There is also the thong option, which looks exactly like the way it sounds. But unlike the two strap, this one does not allow for any easy access.

The double penetration strap on gives the wearer some of the fun, too, by featuring a dildo or vibrator that they can insert while they peg their partner.

Finally, the full coverage strap on. These are worn like underwear and are usually modelled after men’s briefs or women’s bikini style of underwear. While there isn’t access available when wearing these, they do provide a lot of stability when thrusting. You can find all of these options at Adam and Eve.

Some strap ons come with affixed dildos. This is a great all-in-one option, but doesn’t allow for variety or for you to swap anything out in case the dildo is too large. Getting separate pieces will ensure that everything fits properly and gives you options. A separate harness will come with interchangeable d-rings that allow for different sized dildos or vibrators to be placed within the harness and also make cleaning up a breeze.

First time strap on users looking to be comfortable should look for harnesses that have cushioned or padded straps. And as always, when looking for dildos and vibrators, be sure to buy ones that are made from body safe materials like medical grade silicone and metal, glass, elastomer or hard plastic.

Now strap ons are typically thought to be used by women on other women or on men, but they are also a great option for men who have impotence problems. You can get a hallowed out dildo option that will allow you to place yourself inside of it and grow within it. This is a great way to feel connected to your partner while giving them the pleasure they want.

Whatever way you end up using one, remember to have fun, relax and use lots of lube. Want more info? Check out this comprehensive guide.

 

 

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