Lessons in Open- Heart Surgery

Lessons in Open- Heart Surgery

   There is a list of names next to my computer. Though it resembles it, it’s not a list of people who love me no matter what. It’s a list of people I trust to share myself with, unguarded and unafraid, under any circumstances. It’s a short list, which is a fault of...
The Secret of Successful Relationships

The Secret of Successful Relationships

What’s the Secret to Having a Great Relationship? As Susan and I moved into our adult years, the many stories of love and marriage, through songs, cinema, books and our imagination, led us to the belief that, “the secret to having a great relationshipwas finding the...
Being Tantric in 21st-century America

Being Tantric in 21st-century America

We have been teaching Tantra together for nearly a decade and half and have written three books on the subject. Our teacher, Dr. Jonn Mumford, was traditionally trained and initiated and began studying in India in the 1950s, well before it became for fashionable...
My Mothers Wisdom

My Mothers Wisdom

I am sitting here across from my mother, my body sinking into the soft cushions of my sofa, and for the first time in my life, I feel the two of us are equals and we are both infinitely comfortable with that.  Her eyes are sparkling as she stares back at me and speaks...