Imagine a weekend long retreat that focuses on all three parts of the self. A cleanse that targets every aspect of the being. The ultimate reboot of your system.
Clear your mind,
Strengthen your body,
Awaken your spirit
May we take the risk of touching all we are offered with the deep intimacy of being fully present to ourselves & others. May we let that intimacy take us deeper into life, even if it means surrendering past cherished “shoulds,” especially if it means living fully who & what we are.
Join Monique Darling, and Peter Petersen for a weekend of making time for yourself, taking time to awaken, explore and inspire the sacred within, unlocking an unfathomable spirit that connects us to the entire universe .
The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Everywhere you look, you see your inner condition reflected in your outer circumstances and especially in your relationships. Life is a dance of relationships. There is just no avoiding it. And no relationship is more important than the one to yourself.
Every relationship, with nature and with others and with the world itself, is a dance with the Divine. When we relate to it properly everything becomes a door to transcendence, a door to Divine source, not an obstacle to be renounced. In the East this is the way of Tantra. In the West it is the principle of finding God in everything and in everyone.
Enjoy three days of meditation, Qigong, play, dance, silence, and spaces to say all the things you may never have been allowed to say, certainly never before encouraged and witnessed so deeply. Practicing fearless relating with yourself and every other relationship you will ever have. We are also dedicating a whole section devoted to self care including communion with nature, body work to release and move stored emotion and trauma from the body, enhancing the spirit with differing paths of meditation, and a deep dive into nutritional awareness to create self love, self acceptance, and to maintain our physical bodies in optimum health.
Join us as we help you open up your minds and bodies to energetic reality and support you in finding confidence and desire to ask for everything you want, because you can trust your own “no” and practice utter self accountability, so that you experience what it’s like to remain “home” centered as you create time and space between what another says/does and your ability to respond instead of react.
What would it be like to lose the notion of rejection, to never feel “judged” again, taking another’s words, opinion’s as just gifts of where they are at, and using it as an opportunity to more fully connect?
Learning that our own feelings truly just want to be felt…..
What if in just our ability to feel an emotion in its entirety from start to finish that is our contribution to transmuting or evolving it in all of humanity?
What if all the spiritual teachings in the world are just there to remind us to love ourselves more, not less? Instead of trying to do better, get it right…
What if there truly is no answer, no path, no action, no way
Just observing and being accepting and loving of whatever is arising within?
Monique and Peter will guide you on a set of exercises that will help you to delve deeper internally that opens you to incredible connections we have to all that is.
First Peter brings his love of a moving meditation from China called Qigong. Qigong is a movement practice that helps move fresh energy and awareness into our body.
This weekend will also include partnered profound vulnerable sharing. Where we get to meet face to face, and allow ourselves to be defenseless, offering all of the raw, exposed things that are not being said to gain clarity and freedom. A beautiful gift we can offer ourselves and another from our heart.
Join us as we explore these questions and take you on a journey of embodied experience that can reset your heart, body, mind, soul, energetic nature, leave with real world tools you can practice and play with for the rest of your life……..
Bring a partner or come solo and be paired up with a practice partner for the night so you can take these skills home and wow your lover!
Bring a cushion, water bottle, and a curious, open mind.
Wear comfy clothes that you can move around in.
The first 5 tickets will be only $197, the next 10 are $247, and the last 10 will be $297. (If money is keeping you from coming we do have 3 scholarship tickets available, please inquire with Peter or Monique)
RSVP here: https://
Join Peter Petersen and Monique Darling for an explosive 4 hours of playing in the energetic field!!!!
We will begin the evening with one hour devoted to getting everyone on the same page about energy play resonance style……where we will cover many topics including…..
Would you like to expand the range of your ENERGETIC sexual experience?
Turn YOUR life into an orgasmic playground that doesn’t have to look anything like “sex”…
Learn to get in touch with your own energetic field, manipulate it, and turn it into a powerful source of connection and bliss.
Discover how and where to touch another to tune into, access, tease and play with their erotic energy, the energy of two people, or the energy of a entire group!
Tap into the energy of all 7 major chakra’s by yourself, with a partner, or in a group
Discover the differences in “taste” between energetic orgasms from chakra to chakra
Let me show you our tools, tips and tricks for unlocking your stuck sexual energy
AND of course be shown and get to play with Monique’s Infamous creation… the “Heart Fuck!”
Bring a partner, find a partner there, switch partners, or experience the course on your own. Many options will be offered to support each individual experience.
Next up Let us lead you through a welcome circle where a room full of strangers slowly opens up and winds up on the same page, having the opportunity to be seen, heard, and understood in ways maybe you have never even imagined!!
What is Play with a capital “P”?
Play with a capital “P” is whatever it means to you. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul. Participation (also with a capital “P”) can mean many things and voyeurs are as warmly welcomed as the most actively engaged. It’s a sensual space where participants are encouraged to explore themselves and others in ways that are stimulating, nurturing, exciting, safe and FUN!
This is the Play party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND this is the Play party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.
This Party will dive deep into the realms of the energetic, we encourage you to wear your most outrageous and sexy underwear, as this event will be playful, sensual, and energetically “sexual” but undies will stay on for the evening.
Let Monique, and Peter, energetic experts, open and hold a sweet container where you can explore all aspects of an “energetic sex” playground you have ever imagined…..
We will close with a very rich closing circle…
ALL Energetic Sex Play Parties in other states have Sold Out!!
This enchanted, energetic evening is included as part of the weekend intensive, more info and to register go here: https://
or for just the play party go here: https://
This is a perfume free zone.
NOTE: We will be in LONGMONT for this Mark Group
Call for directions!
A Mark Group offers a fun way to meet new people and get closer to people you already know. You can be the center of attention, hang back, or do anything in-between. Playing the three structured games often affords an experience of surprising intimacy, insight, and laughter.
The price for the group is $10 or whatever.
RSVPs do not represent actual attendance, events are listed on multiple calendars.
SUGAR’S TOP 10 REASONS TO GO TO A MARK GROUP:
- A Mark Group is almost always more fun than you think it’s going to be.
- It’s cheaper than a movie.
- It beats sitting at home alone.
- You might actually learn something about yourself.
- You’ll definitely learn something about someone else.
- You could meet the person of your dreams.
- You might get lucky.
- You can expose yourself without taking off your clothes!
- It’s an easy and fun way to invest in your life.
- It’s fun to hear that you’re perfect, whether you believe it or not!
And if you aren’t convinced by now, you’re just going to have to find someone else to tempt you into a good time!
Mark groups were started by Vic Baranco in the sixties. Lafayette Morehouse, established in 1968, is one of America’s oldest intentional communities.
We humans need touch and affection. No Question about it. Consensual, nurturing, non-sexual touch is good for you. Good for your body, mind and spirit. Come enjoy the hugs, the compassion, and the oxytocin (cuddle hormone) high.
Though touch is natural, the skills that make it welcome and enjoyable have to be learned. Hone your skills of communication, boundaries, asking for what you want, and saying ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ with clarity and kindness.
Cuddle Party is led by Vega, a certified Cuddle Party Facilitator. The Facilitator’s job is to guide you into those skills gently and easily, in a fun, safe and light-hearted way. We welcome you and create an atmosphere of respect, and remain available for questions and support.
At a Cuddle Party you gain:
- Clarity and confidence
- Boundary and communication skills
- Comfort, support and encouragement
- The secrets to welcome, relaxed, non-sexual touch
This Cuddle Party begins at 7 pm. Aim to arrive by 6:45 pm to participate. To promote comfort and create safety, the doors will be closed and no one will be allowed to join the Welcome Circle after 7 pm. No exceptions. This ensures everyone is on the same page about rules and expectations.
Cost is tiered and the sooner you sign up the less expensive it is (even though it isn’t very expensive anyway). Pricing starts at $15 and goes as high as $35.
Your advance purchase helps me plan and prepare for appropriate group size. If ticket price is an issue, no worries reach out and contact Vega!
Just contact the Facilitator for options you can get some yummy cuddles, worry free!
SACRED SEX SAMPLER MARCH 26TH, 9:30AM – 5:30PM, with an optional, supervised, practice lab 7-10:30PM
Join Dan Powers and Judith Shivani Davis, both leaders in the sacred sexual art and Tantra communities, for a day-long offering, the first of its kind, geared to those who are ready to find out the basics of many paths to deeper sexual intimacy. You will learn where the paths overlap, how they differ and where to go for further study. You will be taught foundational practices like boundary setting, speaking intentions, creating a ceremonial space, and raising the vibration of your loving through energetic breath and sound. Many of the exercises will be demonstrated and attendees will be given the opportunity to experience the practices themselves.About Judith and Dan
Judith Shivani Davis 
Judith Shivani Davis has been involved in the healing arts since 1976. She has four decades of experience guiding individuals, couples and groups in reclaiming sexual, spiritual, emotional and physical health. She uses her skills and intuition, informed by her experience with Rolf Method, and as a massage therapist, spiritual guide and sexual healer to heal trauma and restore balance and alignment to the body, mind and spirit.
She is an Advanced Certified Tantra Teacher, certified with Charles Muir. She also assists in the 10 day teacher trainings, 4 times a year, at the Source School of Tantra Yoga, in Santa Cruz, CA. She has also trained in the Divine Feminine Mystery School with Caroline Muir, and Joan and Tomas Heartfield. Judith is the Hawaii contact for Charles Muir and the Source School of Tantra Yoga.
She is a past teacher of the Diamond Approach, a school for spiritual development, and her decades of work directly with Hameed Ali (A.H. Almaas), still shapes her personal journey of freedom and awakening. She is currently the director of the Center for Awakened Loving.
Judith Shivani Davis maintains a private practice on Maui, with visits to Colorado, California, Portland, and Boston. She uses massage, Rolf Method, intimacy skill building and sexual healing in her practice.
Daka Dan Powers
At the age of 40, Dan was introduced to the western version of the tantric arts. That introduction began his quest for knowledge about all things related to a more intimate expression of sex and sexuality. Being an engineer, he sought to learn more grounded approaches to sexuality and gain an understanding of the inner workings from the perspective of how our bodies function.
After years of study, Dan has a comprehensive knowledge about sexuality, intimacy and relating from a wide variety of disciplines and traditions. He shares his knowledge with private clients and the wider community as a sexuality educator and consultant. He encourages people to gain their own experience and knowledge so they can decide what works best for them and their relationships. He has made it a personal mission to educate people about the healing aspects and energies of human sexuality in a safe and inviting environment. Dan brought his teaching to an international audience and is a sought after speaker.
Dan is a Certified Tantra Educator through the Source School of Tantra. In addition, he has completed levels 1-4 of Chuluaqui Quodoushka Spiritual Sexuality training, has studied Taoist sexual healing practices, has attended The Body Electric School, and has become versed in the somatic healing practices taught by Lafayette Morehouse, Orgasmic Providers and OneTaste.
NOTE: We will be in BOULDER for this Mark Group
Call for directions!
A Mark Group offers a fun way to meet new people and get closer to people you already know. You can be the center of attention, hang back, or do anything in-between. Playing the three structured games often affords an experience of surprising intimacy, insight, and laughter.
The price for the group is $10 or whatever.
RSVPs do not represent actual attendance, events are listed on multiple calendars.
SUGAR’S TOP 10 REASONS TO GO TO A MARK GROUP:
- A Mark Group is almost always more fun than you think it’s going to be.
- It’s cheaper than a movie.
- It beats sitting at home alone.
- You might actually learn something about yourself.
- You’ll definitely learn something about someone else.
- You could meet the person of your dreams.
- You might get lucky.
- You can expose yourself without taking off your clothes!
- It’s an easy and fun way to invest in your life.
- It’s fun to hear that you’re perfect, whether you believe it or not!
- And if you aren’t convinced by now, you’re just going to have to find someone else to tempt you into a good time!
Mark groups were started by Vic Baranco in the sixties. Lafayette Morehouse, established in 1968, is one of America’s oldest intentional communities.
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We humans need touch and affection. No Question about it. Consensual, nurturing, non-sexual touch is good for you. Good for your body, mind and spirit. Come enjoy the hugs, the compassion, and the oxytocin (cuddle hormone) high.
Though touch is natural, the skills that make it welcome and enjoyable have to be learned. Hone your skills of communication, boundaries, asking for what you want, and saying ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ with clarity and kindness.
Cuddle Party is led by Vega, a certified Cuddle Party Facilitator. The Facilitator’s job is to guide you into those skills gently and easily, in a fun, safe and light-hearted way. We welcome you and create an atmosphere of respect, and remain available for questions and support.
At a Cuddle Party you gain:
- Clarity and confidence
- Boundary and communication skills
- Comfort, support and encouragement
- The secrets to welcome, relaxed, non-sexual touch
This Cuddle Party begins at 7 pm. Aim to arrive by 6:45 pm to participate. To promote comfort and create safety, the doors will be closed and no one will be allowed to join the Welcome Circle after 7 pm. No exceptions. This ensures everyone is on the same page about rules and expectations.
Cost is tiered and the sooner you sign up the less expensive it is (even though it isn’t very expensive anyway). Pricing starts at $15 and goes as high as $35.
Your advance purchase helps me plan and prepare for appropriate group size. If ticket price is an issue, no worries reach out and contact Vega!
Just contact the Facilitator for options you can get some yummy cuddles, worry free!
Are you ready to experience an empowered relationship built on conscious co-creation through Tantric Astrology?
Are you ready to communicate your sexual desires and attractions with edgy confidence and playful ease?
Are you yearning to illuminate your shadows and evolve the patterns in your relationships?
Join VerDarLuz and Elizabeth Wood for an explosive, day-long immersion fusing Tantra and Astrology. Learn how to use the powers of the zodiac to both ignite more passion in your partnerships AND to balance your God/Goddess within. God Mars and Goddess Venus pulse inside each one of us fueling our sensual desires and erotic drives. Yet, too often our fears block us from realizing the full potency and capacity of these energies. Informed by your archetypes of love and sex, learn how the path of the heart can conquer all obstacles, leading to more transparent communication.
During this playshop, VerDarLuz and Elizabeth will lead an insightful, enlivened discussion of Mars and Venus through the zodiac and engage you in embodied practices, games, and exercises to help ground the learning. Evolve intimacy and arouse new peaks of sexual exploration through sacred circling, seductive dance, and flirtatious drama. Leave infused with a specific and juicy vocabulary to express YOUR version of the divine masculine and feminine.
Satiate your hunger for a delicious breakthrough in your intimate connections as we explore:
- Tantric techniques for each Lover’s Archetype
- Sacred circling; Ritual Puja to enhance intimacy
- The Sacred Marriage, the Inner Beloved and the path to wholeness
- Unifying and celebrating the many masks of the divine masculine and feminine
- Expanding your sexual repertoire
- Going beyond simple Sun-Sign astrology
- Specific turn-ons from cuddling to kink
- Revealing and healing your relational shadow
- Astro-drama to invoke your God and Goddess
- Erotic zodiac dance
- Live and DJ music by VerDarLuz
About your Tantric Astrology facilitators:
VerDarLuz is an international speaker, life coach, shamanic astrologer, sexuality educator, and performing artist. He is the founder of Astro*Dance and the creator of the online course Love, Sex, and Relationship Success with Astrology. He has written two books on archetypal astrology and consciousness, Codex of the Soul and Aquarius Dawns. He has been blessed to travel, volunteer, perform, and study in over 30 countries and teach in 8 of those countries. Learn more at divinetimingcoaching.com and soundcloud.com/verdarluz.
Elizabeth Wood is an evolutionary astrologer, Certified Tantra Educator, sexuality educator, and intimacy and relationship expert. She is the co-founder of Beyond the Bedroom which offers comprehensive and evidence-based information on the healing aspects and energies of human sexuality. Learn more at bedevents.com.
When registering, please include your birth date, time, and place. Time is not as important for this workshop but if you have it, please include.
Unfortunately, this event has had to be cancelled for this month. Stay tuned for June.
We humans need touch and affection. No Question about it. Consensual, nurturing, non-sexual touch is good for you. Good for your body, mind and spirit. Come enjoy the hugs, the compassion, and the oxytocin (cuddle hormone) high.
Though touch is natural, the skills that make it welcome and enjoyable have to be learned. Hone your skills of communication, boundaries, asking for what you want, and saying ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ with clarity and kindness.
Cuddle Party is led by Vega, a certified Cuddle Party Facilitator. The Facilitator’s job is to guide you into those skills gently and easily, in a fun, safe and light-hearted way. We welcome you and create an atmosphere of respect, and remain available for questions and support.
At a Cuddle Party you gain:
- Clarity and confidence
- Boundary and communication skills
- Comfort, support and encouragement
- The secrets to welcome, relaxed, non-sexual touch
This Cuddle Party begins at 7 pm. Aim to arrive by 6:45 pm to participate. To promote comfort and create safety, the doors will be closed and no one will be allowed to join the Welcome Circle after 7 pm. No exceptions. This ensures everyone is on the same page about rules and expectations.
Cost is tiered and the sooner you sign up the less expensive it is (even though it isn’t very expensive anyway). Pricing starts at $15 and goes as high as $35.
Your advance purchase helps me plan and prepare for appropriate group size. If ticket price is an issue, no worries reach out and contact Vega!
Just contact the Facilitator for options you can get some yummy cuddles, worry free!