Calendar

Mar
23
Thu
Mark Group @ Private Location in Longmont
Mar 23 @ 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm


NOTE: We will be in LONGMONT

Call for directions!

A Mark Group offers a fun way to meet new people and get closer to people you already know. You can be the center of attention, hang back, or do anything in-between. Playing the three structured games often affords an experience of surprising intimacy, insight, and laughter.

The price for the group is $10 or whatever.

RSVPs do not represent actual attendance, events are listed on multiple calendars.

SUGAR’S TOP 10 REASONS TO GO TO A MARK GROUP:

  1. A Mark Group is almost always more fun than you think it’s going to be.
  2. It’s cheaper than a movie.
  3. It beats sitting at home alone.
  4. You might actually learn something about yourself.
  5. You’ll definitely learn something about someone else.
  6. You could meet the person of your dreams.
  7. You might get lucky.
  8. You can expose yourself without taking off your clothes!
  9. It’s an easy and fun way to invest in your life.
  10. It’s fun to hear that you’re perfect, whether you believe it or not!
  11. Lafayette Morehouse LogoAnd if you aren’t convinced by now, you’re just going to have to find someone else to tempt you into a good time!

Mark groups were started by Vic Baranco in the sixties. Lafayette Morehouse, established in 1968, is one of America’s oldest intentional communities.

Mar
31
Fri
Portal of the Feminine with Pamela Madsen @ Beyond the Bedroom
Mar 31 @ 7:00 pm – Apr 2 @ 5:00 pm

Portal of the Feminine with Pamela Madsen ImagePortal of the Feminine: A Time of Reclaiming is a specially designed non-residential weekend retreat for women that was created to welcome entry level erotic explorers, but can support and inspire advanced students as we guide you in an exploration of erotic embodiment, the role of arousal (your inner pharmacy) in your creative life, develop a new listening to the wisdom and voice of your own body and your ability to speak and identify your desires.

Portal of the Feminine, is in its fifth year of creating a safe and generous space for women, seeks to provide an opportunity for women to cultivate a strong connection to their own bodies, arousal and their own erotic power. Right now, women are needing more than ever to come back to their bodies, and feel the full agency of their collective and individual power. You will leave this workshop feeling turned on, empowered, playful and full of a sense of renewal.

Portal of the Feminine was conceived out of a desire to introduce women to the power of collective female energy as well as support individual cultivation and exploration of the power of playfulness, embodied presence and your own individual expression of sexuality.

Feminine Entry Into Your Own Body

We will take the time to listen to your body and actually talk to the erotic inside of you. You will have the opportunity to been seen through each others’ eyes and through the eyes of a camera. We will encourage you to listen to what your body wants and you will be able to explore your erotic creature in your own way, with the guidance and support of experienced teachers of female sexuality.

In a sacred, playful and intentional environment that respects each woman’s boundaries, we will go deep into the potential pleasure and wisdom of our bodies as we dance in the dark and the light of pleasure. Together we will experience our bodies as expressive, powerful and playful beings.

Explore and Expand Your Femininity

This special edition of Portal of the Feminine will be held in a private residence in Boulder, Colorado. In an atmosphere of permission and acceptance, each woman will explore and expand upon their awareness and sensation through a process of movement, the art if adoration, expanded arousal, boudoir photography, orgasmic meditation (not “OMing”) and playing with our edges.

Each woman will have the opportunity to explore their sexuality on both the physical and energetic realms. All expressions and choices are honored and celebrated.

This workshop is for women of all sexual orientations and ages who are willing to explore their own power to initiate the erotic and surrender to the erotic within a community of women.

During our weekend non-residentual three-day retreat, kicking off with a Friday evening gathering; we will explore embodiment practices that will allow us to go deep into the wisdom of our own bodies. We will play with sensation and expand our knowledge of our own body. We will explore the power of female sexual initiative as well as the bliss of surrender.

This is an opportunity to gather wisdom not just from your body but also by supporting and witnessing other women in their unfolding

Are you ready to develop an internal guide to successfully and sustainability explore your sexuality?

Are you ready to dive deep and play hard?

Join Us Today!

Please join Pamela Madsen – internationally known sex educator and pioneer in women’s sexuality for this non-residential two day retreat created just for women. At this Portal event, Pamela will be joined by Elizabeth Wood, a well known erotic educator with a flare for the mystic, Sway Photography who will capture and help call forth your erotic creature in images, and Dan Powers an extraordinary somatic sex educator, member of the Back to The Body Staff and founder of Beyond the Bedroom in two special guest appearances.

Any questions about the event content or whether this event is right for you – Please email Elizabeth at Elizabeth@Bedevents.com or Pamela Madsen at PamMadsen@gmail.com

From Out Of Town – Hotel Options

Beyond the Bedroom and Pamela Madsen have NO relationship with the listings below.  These are simply places nearby and there is no transportation provided.

Holiday Inn Express Boulder

303/442-6600
3.6 miles away
https://www.ihg.com/holidayinnexpress/hotels/us/en/boulder/vboex/hoteldetail?cm_mmc=GoogleMaps-_-EX-_-USA-_-VBOEX

 

Best Western Plus Boulder Inn

303/449-3800
8.5 miles away
https://www.bestwestern.com/en_US/book/hotel-details.06103.html?iata=00171880&ssob=BLBWI0004G&cid=BLBWI0004G:google:gmb:06103

 

Hampton Inn & Suites Boulder – North

303/530-3300
8.8 miles away
http://hamptoninn3.hilton.com/en/hotels/colorado/hampton-inn-and-suites-boulder-north-WBUGBHX/index.html

 

Niwot Inn

303/652-8452
8.8 miles away
http://niwotinn.com

 

Airbnb

search for North Boulder locations
https://www.airbnb.com/

Apr
13
Thu
Quodouskha Level 1 @ Breckenridge
Apr 13 @ 1:00 pm – Apr 16 @ 6:00 pm
Quodouskha Level 1 @ Breckenridge | Breckenridge | Colorado | United States

We hope you will join us near beautiful Breckenridge Colorado for this

Chuluaqui Quodoushka 1 Workshop

1 PM Thursday April 13- 6 PM Sunday April16, 2017

The Chuluaqui Quodoushka workshop is a 4-day sexuality workshop for singles and couples. The program consists of transformational shamanic sexuality teachings and guided exercises to bring more care, quality and passion into your intimate life. Register by February 28th and SAVE.

Offered since 1985, thousands of people say they have reconnected with the naturalness, the beauty, and the power of their sexuality by attending this amazing workshop. The ‘Q’ is an opportunity to clear away blocks to pleasure, uplift your understanding of sex and help you create more loving intimate relationships.

Over the course of the weekend, you will have the opportunity to:

  • gain spiritual sexual knowledge and tools
  • learn the Fire Breath, Chakra Merging, 5 levels & 5 types of orgasm and much more
  • transform your attitude and relationship to pleasure, sensuality and desire
  • move beyond old beliefs to discover new potential
  • deepen your presence to your life force energy moving in your body
  • support a healthy joyful expression of your sexuality
  • become more intimate, creative, and spontaneous with yourself and others

Facilitators: Karen Krauss & Michael Stein

Workshop Tuition

$745/single Early Bird ($845 after 2/28/17)

$1390/couple Early Bird ($1590 after 2/28/17)

$525 Q Grad/Apprentice Early Bird ($595 after 2/28/17)

includes Quodoushka Manual, Lunches and snacks Thursday through Sunday. Limited onsite accommodation is available for an additional fee. Once you register you will receive all the information you will need to attend, including travel assistance, workshop location and what to bring for the workshop.

Registration is limited and subject to confirmation. Additional information will be provided upon receipt of your registration. A phone conversation with each participant is required to complete registration.

Limited Onsite Accommodation

Dorm style accommodation: $150 per person, includes continental breakfast

Private double rooms $250 person ($500 total), includes continental breakfast

Additional lodging is available on Sunday night for $50 per person.

What can I gain from participating in a Quoduoshka? Read more about Q’s on our Workshops page.

What do participants say about their Quodoushka experiences? Read what men and women say about the power of Quodoushka on our Testimonials page.

Cancellation Policy:    Prior to 15 days before the event, there is a $150 non-refundable fee per person. Less than 15 days of the event, there is a $300 non-refundable fee per person for expenses.

Jul
15
Sat
The Cock & Pussy Project @ Beyond the Bedroom
Jul 15 @ 10:00 am – 10:00 pm

 

Doors Open at 9:40am, Doors will lock at 10:00am YOU MUST BE ON TIME!

The Puja will is from 7PM – 10PM, doors opening at 6:30PM. Again, YOU MUST BE ON TIME!

We only have 24 seats available – this will sell out!

You are invited to share about your sexuality and genitals… both growing up and now.

People across the gender spectrum, who desire to hold space, you are invited to compassionately witness and listen. Have you ever considered there IS a story about your cock or pussy? Your experience is valid…whatever it is. Has it been positive throughout your life? Then come and celebrate!

Has it not been? Then come and receive support.This is your chance to be heard and seen in the presence of others who witness you with love and compassion.

When we can share our stories and our truth in the presence of empathic and compassionate listeners shame dissipates.

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This Cock and Pussy Project™ is a beautiful process for exploring, owning, and healing parts of ourselves that – for many of us – have been associated with shame, trauma, or shadow at some point during our lives. Dr. HazelGrace’s methodology for holding this space and guiding this exploration is inspiring, and creates a safe and loving container to be vulnerable and open about these hidden parts, and to witness and be witnessed by others.

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The morning will be dedicated to individuals who identify as having a penis or cock sharing their stories while being witnessed and heard by empathic listeners.

In the afternoon, we will switch roles with the individuals who identify as having a vagina or pussy will have the floor, while being listened to by compassionate witnesses.

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We know this is a risk. Vulnerably and generously offering your stories about your bodies, heart, and sexuality.

Something powerful happens when you share your story with a group of caring, accepting humans.

People who are there just to listen. Just to support.

“Empathy is the antidote to shame.” Brene Brown

Tell us your story.

We are listening, and want to learn from you.

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Flow of the day:

  • Morning: The Cock Project™ – Cock owners share their stories
  • Lunch break
  • Afternoon: The Pussy Project™ – Pussy owners share their stories
  • Dinner break
  • C&P Puja

The event will skillfully be facilitated by Dr. HazelGrace Yates and Ryel Kestano

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Dr. HazelGrace is profoundly impacted by the amount of psychological and emotional violence that has been, and is currently, being done to men, women, and individuals across the gender spectrum. She recognizes that the world NEEDS healing and comprehensive sex education. She is an unyielding stand for the end of global sexual shame so that humans can experience heart-centered and empowered sexuality. One way she supports this movement is by bringing her workshops to cities across the nation.

Dr. HazelGrace is the founder of The Cock Project™, The Pussy Project™, and The Genitals Project™. She works with individuals and couples as a Clinical Sexologist and a Sexological Bodywork Practitioner to support them having the healthiest and most fulfilling sex of their lives. www.hazelgraceyates.com

Jul
23
Sun
Rocky Mountain High – Back to the Body @ Near Boulder, CO
Jul 23 – Jul 29 all-day

Imagine this…

Seven nights and six days of immersion into a sensual and pleasure pilgrimage back to your body nestled in an extraordinary venue that is built into a side of a cliff with panoramic views of the most gorgeous and wild wilderness. We will be welcoming “The Queen” at 8000 feet . Back to the Body is having the most magnificent of Rocky Mountain Highs and if you are a mid life woman; this retreat is right for you. Join us for a retreat centered around being the Queen of your self self. It’s the miss and essential archetype for mid life women.

This very special workshop is designed especially for women who are no longer “Maidens’, and are completing the “Mother”  and entering the land with no names other than peri-menopause and menopause. This is the land with no name — between the archetypes of “Mother” and “Crone”.  The world is just awakening to the woman who is between the “Mother” and the “Crone”.  We will be welcoming “The Queen” at this retreat.  This can be the hottest time of your life — or a time of numbness. This workshop is all about welcoming the hot Queen.

ARE YOU READY TO DIVE DEEP INSIDE AND BLOW OUT WHAT IT IS TO BE THE QUEEN OF YOUR OWN LIFE?

Let’s set the stage:

“Above the Clouds” is the name of this truly unique 8500 square foot luxury estate. “Above the Clouds” sits on top of Bear Mountain at just over 8,000′ elevation. If that isn’t enough to take your breath away, wait until you see the 100-plus mile views from any one of the many balconies looking over this private 32-acre estate. This home is built directly into the side of the mountain with 20’ boulders on each side of the entrance to the front door, huge boulders nestled into the Great Room, and 3 waterfalls cascading from the dining room down into the living room. This 8-bedroom house features

  • A Great Room with 28’ ceilings, a wall of windows for incredible views, and a center fireplace.
  • Theater Room with 3 tiers, 11 leather full layout chairs, 10’ screen and surround sound.
  • Indoor hot tub, steam shower, and dry sauna.
  • Game Room with 20’ bar, pool table, shuffleboard, ping pong, and Foosball.
  • 1,200 sq ft main deck off of Great Room with fire pit and seating for outdoor dinners.
  • Dining Room with private wine cooler and 13’ farm table with seating for 14. Large picture window with breathtaking views.
  • Workout Room with treadmill, recumbent bike, various weight machines, and free weight.
  • 4 fireplaces.

 

Your days will be spent experiencing everything you would expect from Back to the Body:

 

  • This is the first expanded version of Back to the Body. It’s seven nights and six days long.
  • Daily hands on Taoist Sensuous Bodywork Sessions conducted by Ron Stewart, Neal Wecker,  Sexological Bodyworkers- a new profession certified in California.  Ron and Neal are joined by Dan Powers is known as a “Daka”. Dakas are men who possess advanced experiences of tantric transformation and control and are therefore able to increase the blissful wisdom of a highly qualified practitioner. Dan has been a Certified Tantric Practitioner for over ten years. In this special expanded version of Back to The Body, sessions will also be expanded running from 90 minutes to two hours long.
  • One session with two body workers called Cradle of the Love”.
  • One session of “Yoni Clearing” with Elizabeth Wood
  • Sexuality and Intimacy Coaching to support you in overcoming body shame, identifying your desires and safely exploring them.
  • Explore the possibility of feeling the full activation of your whole female autonomic system and learn to do this at home.
  • Workshops led by Pamela Madsen, on “Eating Sensually”, “Experiencing and Embodying Our Sensuality Out of The Bedroom”, “Understanding Female Orgasm”, “Jade Egg Embodiment Practice”, Unleashing The Power of Your Pelvis”, “The Arousal Principle” and The Anatomy of Arousal”.
  • Lotus Lift Meditation Practice instruction with Pamela Madsen, recently featured in “O, The Oprah Magazine”.
  • Daily morning practice with Yoga and Ecstatic Trance Dance Experiences and guided visualization meditations
  • Group discussions on body image, orgasm, sexuality, speaking desire, power play, understanding boundaries and how to open to more pleasure in our daily lives.
  • Melt into a sisterhood experience like no other.

And of course, a range of extraordinary activities that include:

  • Dip into an experience of Tantra with a Puja Ceremony
    • A Puja ceremony calls us to the practice of discovering, reuniting and celebrating the divine energy within our-self and another.
    • A Puja ceremony is about offering and receiving adoration.
    • The word Puja comes from Sanskrit and means reverence, honor, homage, adoration and worship.
    • Each person is celebrated as a special guest.
    • A Puja ceremony is facilitated. Each guest will be guided through specific exercises and experiences.
  • Queen Steams, Herbal Yoni Treatment
    • Respected by women and holistic healers throughout the globe, Yoni steaming is the ancient practice of allowing the warmth of specifically created herbal steam to softly permeate a woman’s vulva.
    • Each steam allows each woman to connect to her body through the wisdom of plant medicine. It is an opportunity for a woman to celebrate and cherish her body, to enjoy her womb as the beautiful and sacred center from where she radiates her capacity to change the world.
  • Understanding the Goddess and God of Love through Astrology
    • Each of us contains the energies of the Goddess (Venus) and God (Mars) of Love.
    • Learning where each planet resides in your birth chart can help you navigate the power that each possesses.
    • Dive deeper into Venus and Mars to reveal more about your love nature
  • Rocky Mountain High Photo-shoot with an extraordinary photographer who is very experienced working with our women; supported by Pamela in your photo shoot. A not to be missed experience of healing.
  • Hang out in our hot tub with amazing panoramic views.
  • Enjoy extraordinary food and explore a new way of eating. We will be learning how a Queen eats differently than a maiden or a mother. We will be feeding the Queen and learning how to cook for her with experiences with our private chef being brought over from Spain for this special retreat.

July 23rd through July 29th 2017

This retreat is will be staffed by five sex educators; Pamela, Ron, Neal, Dan and Elizabeth plus private Chef. We will also have visiting instructors and our photographer. This retreat is limited to 9 women. There are currently only two spots left, and that was before this retreat went onto our website. Don’t wait.

$6300 USD  (Sold Out)

$6000 King Size Bed in Shared Room (One Left)

$5800.00 Single Bed or Fulton in Shared Room (One Left)

Please remember that there are no refunds on our programs. If you are unable to attend, we will work with you to transfer you to another program.

Sep
7
Thu
What is The Sexually Satisfied and Seasoned Woman and Can You Meet Her?
Sep 7 @ 5:00 pm – 6:00 pm

Join Pamela Madsen and Dan Powers of Back to the Body Sensuous Retreats for Women for an important complimentary webinar.

What Do Women Want and Can You Meet Her There?

So, what if your partner (or yourself) decide that they are brave enough to dive into the erotic; to become one of those women who “come out”; becomes a women who stops hiding their body, their sexuality and their desires. There is a great change and this woman stops worrying about what family, friends or neighbor think. They dress like they want to dress. They spend money the way they want to spend money. And, this woman (you or your partner), becomes everything that anyone has ever heard about lovers wanting in a woman.

And then what? What about our partners?

At Back to the Body, we are asked over and over again — what about the partners?It’s wonderful to be a woman with her heart on fire and the rest of her wet — but is there a partner to meet her? What happens when we start performing sex and become sex?

This is a deep and important webinar for women and their partners to take on.

Oct
14
Sat
BedPost Confessions @ The Avalon
Oct 14 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Bedpost Confessions FlyerBedPost is back for a very special event this Halloween season!
Four awesome presenters will share their story, anonymous audience confessions read throughout the event, fun and sexy raffle prizes.
  • AND the wonderful, talented, and sexy dancers of Boulder Burlesque will be making a stop on their tour to enliven us with a taste of their ever so popular Pussy Grabs Back performance! 
  • Out Boulder will be hosting the bar. 
  • DJ for after hour socializing  
  • Come support these sex-positive organizations and more!
  • Dress up highly encouraged but not required. What sexual archetype do you want to embody? The Dominatirix? Furry?  Superhero? Wear whatever makes you feel sexy or explore an edge you’ve been yearning to try on. 
“BedPost Confessions,” an event that started in Austin, Texas, gathers community members for a performance of stories about sexuality. We’ve brought it to Boulder! The emphasis is around breaking down stigmas, educating and empowering people in their journey – whether it is one of healing or celebration.
We believe that people sharing their stories is immensely healing and deepens our understanding of the important role sexuality plays in all of our lives. Rarely are we given the chance to express our deepest secrets and desires in a safe and caring container. Boulder has outstanding private therapy and sporadic educational workshops that support sexual health. What is missing is a community-based, readily accessible resource aimed at raising the bar of our sexual awareness and expression through story telling. BedPost Confessions is for people of all different backgrounds and socioeconomic statuses. Education and challenging harmful stigmas is a big part of the inclusive container we wish to create. We want people to walk out of this event with an increased boost of compassion for other people’s experiences and for their own. Everyone is welcomed to come as you are, moving forward as the dignified and creative sexual beings that we are!
Apr
5
Thu
The Opening @ Easton Mountain
Apr 5 @ 9:00 pm – Apr 8 @ 9:00 pm

the-opening-bw.pngThe Opening is a newly created opportunity for women who have never attended a Back to the Body Retreat and are curious about the possibilities.

This brand new special immersion retreat is also a wonderful way for women who have attended a Back to the Body Retreat to stay connected and hone their tools between retreats. The Opening has been created for all women who are seeking a way to simply begin their pilgrimage or stay connected to their journey.

This immersion retreat (our first on the east coast) is different than our core programs in other locations, and allows women who are holding curiosity in their bodies about what somatic sex education can offer to participate more easily.

This is an opportunity to actually begin and feel this work rather than just talk about it.  The Opening is about making “Someday” a real possibility.

We believe that the secret sauce is in touch and immersion. Join us for four days and nights in upstate NY beginning on April 5th through April 8th in a rustic and comfortable venue as we join hands to meet ourselves in the deepest of levels.

At this retreat you will receive:

Lodging and meals

An introduction to Somatic Sex Education

Two One on One Personalized Sessions with a Certified Somatic Sex Educator

Session One: An Introduction to The Table, Touch and the Practice

Session Two: Introduction to Arousal

Live Demo and Teaching centered around the two sessions that each woman will experience.

Morning Yoga Practice

Lotus Lift Meditation

Sexuality Coaching

Clearing Rituals of the Masculine and Feminine

Healing the Mother Wound and Opening to Sisterhood

Rewriting Our Body Stories

Optional Taster Boudoir Photo shoot with Back to the Body Photographer, Sway

Aug
7
Tue
Intro to Quodoushka: Boulder @ Beyond the Bedroom
Aug 7 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Have you heard about the Quodoushka or Q? Are you curious as to what it is about?
The Chuluaqui Quodoushka workshop is a 4-day sexuality workshop for singles and couples. The program consists of transformational shamanic sexuality teachings and guided exercises to bring more care, quality and passion into your intimate life. In this Introduction to the Quodoushka you will learn what is involved with the Q (as we all call it for short) in addition to learning some of the teachings.
 
Offered since 1985, thousands of people say they have reconnected with the naturalness, the beauty, and the power of their sexuality by attending this amazing workshop.
 
Come learn what the Quodoushka is all about in this informative and fun introduction. You will receive practical information you can apply to your life and learn if the Q is for you.
 
Click the Ticketing link for more details!
Sep
18
Tue
Intro to Quodoushka: Denver @ Private Home Denver
Sep 18 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Have you heard about the Quodoushka or Q? Are you curious as to what it is about?
The Chuluaqui Quodoushka workshop is a 4-day sexuality workshop for singles and couples. The program consists of transformational shamanic sexuality teachings and guided exercises to bring more care, quality and passion into your intimate life. In this Introduction to the Quodoushka you will learn what is involved with the Q (as we all call it for short) in addition to learning some of the teachings.
 
Offered since 1985, thousands of people say they have reconnected with the naturalness, the beauty, and the power of their sexuality by attending this amazing workshop.
 
Come learn what the Quodoushka is all about in this informative and fun introduction. You will receive practical information you can apply to your life and learn if the Q is for you.
 
Click the Ticketing link for more details!